THE INDIAN SAMAJ OR INDIVIDUAL HAPPINESS ---- I AM CONFUSED .....

TODAY, I AM VERY DISAPPOINTED WITH MY LIFE FOR A FEW MAJOR REASONS. ONE BEING THAT I AM IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE AND THAT GIRL ALSO LOVES ME BUT TELLS ME CANNOT GO ANY BEYOND WHAT WE HAVE REACHED. ONCE SHE DID TELL ME THIS IS A GOD MADE RELATIONSHIP AND WE SHOULD NOT INTERFERE. BUT NOW SHE IS BACKING OFF FROM IT THINKING OF A LOT OF THINGS WHICH NOW I AM ENLIGHTENED TO KNOW THAT RELATE TO THIS BLOODY INDIAN SAMAJ....
I AM 24 SHE IS 22 WE ARE LEGALLY ABOVE THE AGE OF FALLING IN LOVE AND ALSO QUIET MATURE ENOUGH TO TAKE THE DECISIONS OF OUR LIFE IN A PROPER MATURE MANNER. IF I AM NOT AT LEAST SHE IS I AM SURE ABOUT THAT. BUT THEN TOO WE HAVE TO BACK UP FROM SOMETHING AMAZING IN OUR LIVES WHICH WE BOTH ALWAYS DREAMT OF JUST BECAUSE OF THIS BLOODY INDIAN SAMAJ,
INTER-CASTE MARRIAGES ARE STILL CONSIDERED TO BE A CRIME IN INDIA. INDIA , YES THE COUNTRY WHICH HAS LAUNCHED A SPACE SHUTTLE STILL HAS A PROBLEM WITH INTER-CASTE MARRIAGES. THE COUNTRY WHICH HAS GONE FAR BEYOND THE MARUTI SUZUKI TO THE MECREDES BENZ AND BMW'S IS STILL STUCK WITH THE OLD TRADITIONS AND ALL. BLOODY BULLSHIT. SORRY FOR USING SUCH A PRO FAIN LANGUAGE FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY BLOG BUT I AM DAMN ANGRY TODAY.
WHY CANNOT THIS SAMAJ LET TWO INDIVIDUALS OF A SOUND MIND DECIDE THEIR DESTINY. TWO PEOPLE WHO KNOW THAT THEY LOVE EACH OTHER TO A LEVEL THAT NO ONE ELSE CAN HAVE TO HURT EACH OTHER EVERY DAY WITH TEARS IN THE EYES JUST TO KEEP THE SAMAJ HAPPY .....RECENTLY OUR FAMILY HAS COME OUT OF A FAMILY CRISIS , NO ONE AND MIND YOU FRIENDS NO ONE FROM THIS BLOODY INDIAN SAMAJ CAME FORWARD TO HELP MY DAD OUT OF IT ......MY DAD HAD TO WAIT FOR 10YEARS FOR HIS SON TO BECOME WHAT HE IS TODAY SO THAT HE COULD HANDLE HIS BUSINESS..... YES FOR THIS I AM PROUD OF MY DAD HE DID MANAGE EVERYTHING , BUT THEN WHERE WAS THIS SO CALLED SAMAJ THEN ............. I BOYCOTT THIS SAMAJ HERE OFF WHO SPEAKS GREAT THINGS ABOUT LOVE AND THEN HAS A HEADLINE OF "HONOR KILLINGS" IN THE NEWSPAPER THE OTHER DAY. WHATS THE USE OF LIVING IN SUCH A TWO FACED SOCIAL LIFE WHERE YOUR RULES HURT YOU....... ONCE I HAD HEARD AT SCHOOL MAN IS A SOCIAL ANIMAL TODAY I GUESS IF HE WERE A ANIMAL IT WAS BETTER OFF ACTUALLY THE MOMENT HE BECAME SOCIAL HE BECAME A HYPOCRATE.. I DO NOT READ ABOUT INTER-CASTE MARRIAGE ACTS OR THE HINDU MARRIAGE ACT OR THE MUSLIM MARRIAGE LAW JOURNAL OR SO ON IN THE WORLD OF ANIMALS ..... THEY ARE JUST BETTER OFF THAN US HUMANS ... NO POLITICS, NO RELIGION NO BETRAYAL DEATHS NO HONOR KILLINGS NOTHING AT ALL JUST PLAIN SIMPLE AMAZING LIFE ..................SO I HERE ON DECLARE MYSELF OUT OF THIS BLOODY INDIAN SAMAJ AND I WILL CRITICISE EACH AND EVERY RULE OF THIS SAMAJ WHICH IS NOT IN FAVOR OF THE WELL BEING OF THE HUMAN COMMUNITY IN MY OWN IDIOTIC AND IRRITATIVE MANNER

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