Life is not complicated don't make it one


Ups and downs, tensions, problems, goals, dreams and many such complicated words comprise of life. This is what often is told to us and described as life to us. This is the reason why we blame life to be complicated. Every one is having an issue with life today. The new generations to come are already scared with the burden we are putting on their shoulders. This is not right it has to stop somewhere. The question often asked is how do we change this? The answer is very simple. As kids we use to have a lot of fun. Where did all that fun go? Though we are now grown ups and though we have responsibilities but our hearts and minds are still the same, our body has grown in shape size and age but our soul is the same then why is it that we still do not feel that fun in us. It is because we have given up on our own self. People say, they do not behave in a particular manner because it is immature, can anyone define maturity. Well Oxford can may be but then again maturity is not theoretical it is something that can only be felt, but maturity does not mean we loose our fun, maturity does not mean we loose the kid in us. Maturity means to live with the kid in us and still fulfill our responsibilities. All this idiot ism about maturity is like self made and self inflicted wounds on us. We have the lack of self love and self confidence. We lack the attitude we had as kids, the attitude where were not worried about anything but just focused on being happy. We lack all this because we have started thinking about what will others feel. You wanna play in the rain but you don't "what the hell will others think?" you want to sing you know you are not a good singer but u feel like singing but you don't "what the hell will others think?" you love someone but you don't tell that person "what the hell would that person think or answer?" End all this self infliction on your own self. Be what you are be happy damn it no one is gonna tax you for that or no one is gonna ask you questions on that, Others think because they do not have anything else to do, they think because they cannot be happy like you, they stare at you because every wonderful thing is always stared at. You are unique you are different and you are wonderful. You are important precious beautiful and always on the run. You wanna sing go ahead sing out loud let the world hear, you wanna dance then dance in a manner that the crowd applauds at your happiness in it, you wanna love then love in a manner that God himself would feel jealous of you. You wanna live then live like no one ever has lived before show them the way set the trend and be your own miracle maker. Remember miracles do happen all it takes is your brains and your soul to make them happen. God bless all the readers.

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