EXPECTATIONS AND FURTHER EXPECTATIONS EVERYWHERE ----- I DONT KNOW WHAT TO REACT
I JUST RETURNED FROM OUR LAWYER. HAD GONE TO HIM FOR SOME LEGAL WORK. NOW THE SITUATION AFTER MEETING HIM THUS HAPPENS THAT I NEED TO GO THE DISTRICT COURT FOR SOME FORMALITIES..... AND HERE ON THE OTHER SIDE I HAVE ANOTHER LEGAL DOCUMENT TO BE FINISHED WHERE I AM EXPECTED BY MY RESPECTED FATHER TO BE THERE AND COMPLETE ............ WHEN WILL EVERY ONE AROUND UNDERSTAND THAT I AM JUST ONE HUMAN BEING AND PRACTICALLY I CANNOT BE AT 2 PLACES AT A TIME EVEN IF I WANT TO.
DAD WANTS ME TO FINISH EVERYTHING AS HE THINKS IT IS MY RESPONSIBILITY...... IN SHORT HE JUST MEANS TO THROW AWAY THE BORING LENGTHY WORK ON ME AND RELAX AT EASE..... BUT PRACTICALLY WHICH IS NOT POSSIBLE...... BUT WHEN I GAVE IT A THOUGHT ,THIS IS NOT A PROBLEM ONLY WITH MY LIFE IT IS VERY COMMON AMONG ALL.....I MEAN WE ARE EXPECTED TO DO EVERYTHING WITH EXPERTISE..... I DID LEARN A WORD 'MULTI TASKING' SOMEWHERE I WORKED.... BUT THEN MULTI TASKING CAN ALSO BE DONE BEING PRESENT IN ONE PLACE ...... BUT THEN PEOPLE EXPECT US TO BE LIKE SOME SUPER HERO WANT US TO DO EVERYTHING...... FAILING WHICH WE ARE TERMED AS PEOPLE WHO DO NOT FULFILL THEIR RESPONSIBILITY HENCE CONSIDERED AS IRRESPONSIBLE........
WHAT ABOUT THE TIME WE NEED TO SPEND WITH FRIENDS, MAY ON THE NET WAITING FOR SOME SPECIAL FRIEND TO GET ONLINE TO WHOM WE WOULD LOVE TO SPEAK BUT WE AIN'T THERE THE REASON BEING A BLOODY IDIOTIC WORK DELEGATED TO US JUST BECAUSE OUR ELDERS FIND IT TOO BORING.............. I DO NOT SAY IT IS WRONG WHAT THEY ARE DOING AFTER ALL IT IS THEIR RIGHT TO DO SO ........... BUT THEN IS IT ALWAYS NECESSARY FOR US TO JUST LOOK TOWARDS RESPONSIBILITIES AND OVERLOOK SOMETHING THAT WE REALLY WANT...........SO THAT ONCE WE ARE WHAT SOME 60-70 WE WILL THINK WHAT THE F**K WE COULD HAVE EASILY SAID A NO AND DONE WHAT WE WANTED........
TODAY MY FRIEND NIRAV POINTED OUT TO ME THAT KUNAL THE NUMBER OF SUICIDES ARE INCREASING .............. YES NIRAV THEY ARE INCREASING AND MAY BE SUCH A EXPECTATION IS ONE REASON FOR SUCH CIRCUMSTANCES IN LIFE.......
PEOPLE EXPECT A LOT FROM US,WE TRY TO MAKE THEM HAPPY . BUT SOMEWHERE WE LACK THE HAPPINESS OF FULFILLING THE RESPONSIBILITY AS WE LACK THE HAPPINESS OF DOING IT WITH ALL HEART AND SOUL IN IT AND I GUESS HENCE WE EVEN LACK THE EXPERTISE IN IT........ WHY ARE WE NOT GIVEN THE FREEDOM TO DUMP SOME RESPONSIBILITIES ON SOMEONE? WHEN I ASKED MYSELF THIS QUESTION I GOT A UNREASONABLE ANSWER FROM MY DAD HE CLEARLY SAID 'WHEN WILL YOU LEARN IT THEN' I JUST ASKED HIM IN RETURN 'DAD WHEN DID YOU LEARN IT' HE SAID 'I DID LEARN IT WHEN I HAD TO LEARN IT I WAS NOT FORCED TO.' SO THEN WHY THE FORCING ON ME. HE WAS SILENT. I GUESS HE HAD GOT THE BEST OF ME IN THE ARGUMENT AND HE KNOWS HE CANNOT WIN OVER HIS SON...... PATHETIC I KNOW.... BUT THEN THE POINT IS WHY THE FORCING ON US.... WE FEEL BORED AND BUGGED UP DOING THINGS WE DON'T HAVE TO...BUT WE DO IT BECAUSE WE ARE FORCED TO LEARN THEM..... A TODDLER LEARNS TO WALK WHEN HE HAS TO .... HE IS NOT FORCED AT THE AGE OF 3 MONTHS OR SO THAT HEY DUDE STAND UP AND WALK WHEN WILL YOU LEARN...... EVERY RESPONSIBILITY IN LIFE SHOULD BE TAKEN AT THE CORRECT TIME AND ALSO AT THE CORRECT NEED ......... FROM THE ANALYSIS I DID I LEARN'T ONE THING THAT NEED AND RESPONSIBILITY GO HAND IN HAND ....ONCE YOU FEEL THE NEED OF MONEY YOU BECOME RESPONSIBLE OF EARNING IT...... ONCE YOU FEEL THE NEED OF SOMEONE IN YOUR LIFE ..... YOU BECOME RESPONSIBLE TO LOVE SOMEONE AND ALSO BE LOYAL TO THAT SOMEONE..... AND SO ON ..................... I GUESS AT LEAST I WOULDN'T BE FORCING MY CHILD INTO AN UNWANTED RESPONSIBILITY....CHEERS GUYS HAVE FUN :-)
DAD WANTS ME TO FINISH EVERYTHING AS HE THINKS IT IS MY RESPONSIBILITY...... IN SHORT HE JUST MEANS TO THROW AWAY THE BORING LENGTHY WORK ON ME AND RELAX AT EASE..... BUT PRACTICALLY WHICH IS NOT POSSIBLE...... BUT WHEN I GAVE IT A THOUGHT ,THIS IS NOT A PROBLEM ONLY WITH MY LIFE IT IS VERY COMMON AMONG ALL.....I MEAN WE ARE EXPECTED TO DO EVERYTHING WITH EXPERTISE..... I DID LEARN A WORD 'MULTI TASKING' SOMEWHERE I WORKED.... BUT THEN MULTI TASKING CAN ALSO BE DONE BEING PRESENT IN ONE PLACE ...... BUT THEN PEOPLE EXPECT US TO BE LIKE SOME SUPER HERO WANT US TO DO EVERYTHING...... FAILING WHICH WE ARE TERMED AS PEOPLE WHO DO NOT FULFILL THEIR RESPONSIBILITY HENCE CONSIDERED AS IRRESPONSIBLE........
WHAT ABOUT THE TIME WE NEED TO SPEND WITH FRIENDS, MAY ON THE NET WAITING FOR SOME SPECIAL FRIEND TO GET ONLINE TO WHOM WE WOULD LOVE TO SPEAK BUT WE AIN'T THERE THE REASON BEING A BLOODY IDIOTIC WORK DELEGATED TO US JUST BECAUSE OUR ELDERS FIND IT TOO BORING.............. I DO NOT SAY IT IS WRONG WHAT THEY ARE DOING AFTER ALL IT IS THEIR RIGHT TO DO SO ........... BUT THEN IS IT ALWAYS NECESSARY FOR US TO JUST LOOK TOWARDS RESPONSIBILITIES AND OVERLOOK SOMETHING THAT WE REALLY WANT...........SO THAT ONCE WE ARE WHAT SOME 60-70 WE WILL THINK WHAT THE F**K WE COULD HAVE EASILY SAID A NO AND DONE WHAT WE WANTED........
TODAY MY FRIEND NIRAV POINTED OUT TO ME THAT KUNAL THE NUMBER OF SUICIDES ARE INCREASING .............. YES NIRAV THEY ARE INCREASING AND MAY BE SUCH A EXPECTATION IS ONE REASON FOR SUCH CIRCUMSTANCES IN LIFE.......
PEOPLE EXPECT A LOT FROM US,WE TRY TO MAKE THEM HAPPY . BUT SOMEWHERE WE LACK THE HAPPINESS OF FULFILLING THE RESPONSIBILITY AS WE LACK THE HAPPINESS OF DOING IT WITH ALL HEART AND SOUL IN IT AND I GUESS HENCE WE EVEN LACK THE EXPERTISE IN IT........ WHY ARE WE NOT GIVEN THE FREEDOM TO DUMP SOME RESPONSIBILITIES ON SOMEONE? WHEN I ASKED MYSELF THIS QUESTION I GOT A UNREASONABLE ANSWER FROM MY DAD HE CLEARLY SAID 'WHEN WILL YOU LEARN IT THEN' I JUST ASKED HIM IN RETURN 'DAD WHEN DID YOU LEARN IT' HE SAID 'I DID LEARN IT WHEN I HAD TO LEARN IT I WAS NOT FORCED TO.' SO THEN WHY THE FORCING ON ME. HE WAS SILENT. I GUESS HE HAD GOT THE BEST OF ME IN THE ARGUMENT AND HE KNOWS HE CANNOT WIN OVER HIS SON...... PATHETIC I KNOW.... BUT THEN THE POINT IS WHY THE FORCING ON US.... WE FEEL BORED AND BUGGED UP DOING THINGS WE DON'T HAVE TO...BUT WE DO IT BECAUSE WE ARE FORCED TO LEARN THEM..... A TODDLER LEARNS TO WALK WHEN HE HAS TO .... HE IS NOT FORCED AT THE AGE OF 3 MONTHS OR SO THAT HEY DUDE STAND UP AND WALK WHEN WILL YOU LEARN...... EVERY RESPONSIBILITY IN LIFE SHOULD BE TAKEN AT THE CORRECT TIME AND ALSO AT THE CORRECT NEED ......... FROM THE ANALYSIS I DID I LEARN'T ONE THING THAT NEED AND RESPONSIBILITY GO HAND IN HAND ....ONCE YOU FEEL THE NEED OF MONEY YOU BECOME RESPONSIBLE OF EARNING IT...... ONCE YOU FEEL THE NEED OF SOMEONE IN YOUR LIFE ..... YOU BECOME RESPONSIBLE TO LOVE SOMEONE AND ALSO BE LOYAL TO THAT SOMEONE..... AND SO ON ..................... I GUESS AT LEAST I WOULDN'T BE FORCING MY CHILD INTO AN UNWANTED RESPONSIBILITY....CHEERS GUYS HAVE FUN :-)
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