LOVE IS LIKE DIABETES


Love is like diabetes........
Last night after dinner a simultaneous chain of events occurred with me. I was checking my mom's sugar levels on the Gluco-meter, simultaneously I got a call from a friend in agony, and my mind yet was thinking about my ex. The friend just asked me one simple question "Kunal, what is exactly love? Why is it that I am always in tears because of love? Why the hell has this happened to me?". With all the other things happening around I just spoke up one statement "Love is like diabetes". She was stunned. She quoted"Kunal either you have gone mad or may be you are not considering my problem to be serious and just cracking jokes". Before she could burst out into a continuous and monotonous flow of tears and anger I got a hold of her senses and just told her that she had to trust me when I said that. I actually did not have much to debate on sustaining my point to be correct but here is what I explained to her :
Diabetes and love are nothing but the same. It happens to nearly 85% people. Some manage to control both Love and Diabetes, and yet some have huge issues because of it. Just like diabetes even love is a disease that is to be lived with forever. There is no permanent cure to both. Diabetes can make you go worst, love also has the same effects. In diabetes the patient becomes mentally unstable with the fact that he or she has contracted it and now will have to live with it for ever. All the sugar in life seems to wither away. The same happens in love once in love you feel sweet but once it goes away all the charm in life is gone. Diabetes shoots up leading the person to many other issues, of course none of them simple enough they always have a very bad effect. If there is an overdose of love the same happens to you. In diabetes you are hospitalised and your life is in danger in the higher levels of it the same happens in love, the relationship stands in danger and may even wither off leaving the people involved in it with emotional trauma and depression. If diabetes levels are low again the same scenario can happen and it similar in case of love too. The less you love each other the more chances of the relationship to be in danger. Diabetes has supplements such as insulin shots, tablets to keep the person going. Love has supplements such as frank and open discussions, kisses, hugs, gifts, some tears, beautiful romantic lines. In both scenarios the patient and the relationship cannot survive without the supplements. And above all even knowing all this about diabetes no patient has ever been able to keep it in proper levels and has always faced issues. In love too even after knowing everything we still land up hurting each other and making mistakes and even breaking up. So I guess Love is like diabetes. And if you make friends with the situation in both cases you can live and love happily. Just remember come what may if you love the person you just have to increase the supplements of kisses, cares, hugs and emotions to let the relationship live instead of quitting on it. 

After hearing all this she laughed out very loud her tears were gone and she asked what should she do to please her Bf. I just told her to remain calm because again Love being like diabetes if you do not remain calm you can land up in more problems. I was complimented that I am being so composed and that my girl is the luckiest. But I guess my relationship already died. No supplements will ever work, I am too late to understand this 

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