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Tamed Emotions and chained feelings.

The other day I got a call from a friend. She was sounding too low and tensed.The phone call was from a concerned sister seeking help for her brother. She had called me to tell me that her brother had a break up recently and he was too depressed and she wanted me to talk things out with him and counsel him out of the depression. I told her I would be at her place the following morning.  I have been counseling such cases just as a hobby and not a profession. I have no official degree in it but I do it as a gesture of kindness to people who don't understand the pain of a heart break and can't handle it. What makes me the expert in doing so? Well, philosophically speaking I ain't got a heart anymore. It has been destroyed and broken so many times that it doesn't exist anymore. Physically and mentally speaking I am into a state of "Emotional Paralysis" a acute condition of numbness towards all emotions caused due to chemical imbalance in the brain leadin...

What is Religion?

“Kunal, please do not be so much of an  Atheist . Why don’t you believe in God and religion dude.” Was the statement my friend put forth to me when we were discussing once again the possibilities of the non-existence of God. This was the usual statement he made when he ran out of points to argue with me and convince me on the same. “Look when you have proper points to argue and convince me only then discuss God with me. Till date you and anyone or everyone who has debated with me on this has lost arguments over all this” was my closing statement to the debate. He however like all other people around me was determined to make me agree that God exists and bow before him. The other day he called me and asked me whether I was interested in giving a motivational lecture to his 10 th and 12 th std students. At first I was reluctant as I knew what he was upto. He knew I could lead the herd anywhere with my words as per his demands. If given a chance I could convince anyone in...

The price to be paid

It had been a long time I was in dire need of a vacation. The moment arrived when my friend who is a bank employee called me asking if I were free for the weekend as the banks had called out a strike and he was free for the weekend. I said why not lets hang out and explore. He agreed. He arrived at my place on Sunday morning and we took a nice bike ride to Kashid a small town near Alibaugh. It took us 3 hours to reach. Though tiring the journey was fun riding the bike taking chances, waiting to observe beautiful and natural scenarios around, taking in the fresh air and feeling the cool breeze, refreshing ourselves in the midst of the greenery around. It was just very beautiful. Both my friend and I were over-whelmed over choosing this place for our weekend and were enjoying every second of it. We finally reached Kashid and booked a room for ourselves and went to sleep. As decided in the evening we took a ride to the beach for some water-sports and some relaxing massages and also to vi...

Three friends : Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow at the Time Coffee shop

Three friends: Today, Tomorrow and Yesterday decided to meet one day. Yesterday called up Today and told him to call up Tomorrow and tell him to meet at the Time coffee shop. As decided Yesterday arrived first and was waiting for Today and Tomorrow to come. Today on the other hand was already sitting inside the coffee shop wasting time waiting for Yesterday and Tomorrow to come. Suddenly, Yesterday noticed Tomorrow approaching the parking lobby and he waved him. Tomorrow parked his car and came and hugged Yesterday. After exchanging greetings both decided to get inside the shop instead of standing outside and waiting for Today. There did see today sitting on a table texting to friends on his smart phone and also reading his emails. He was laughing at one of the text messages when Yesterday and Tomorrow approached the table. Today looked up a little with a frown. He then got up and hugged both Yesterday and Tomorrow. All three sat and ordered their favorite coffee. Yesterday start...

The Birthday Special ------ @28

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ENJOY!!!! LIFE!!!!!  @ 28…. “Tomorrow you turn 28, though you have turned responsible but just a little. You are still not a grown up. Your behavior isn’t that mature yet. When will you learn to take life seriously? You are already going to be 28. Are you even listening to what I am saying?” This was how my day started today at the morning tea. My dad is an amazing person and he loves me a lot. Like all other fathers, he wants his son to be perfect and responsible. There is just one thing lacking though. His son isn’t like all other sons. To what the world sits and cries I sit and laugh at. To what people believe to be a dead end is my clue to start working. There are many like me who are different, who think out of the box. However, sometimes families or responsibilities or broken dreams put them into the line of the normal world. Nothing wrong in it though. Not everyone can be taking the responsibility of thinking out of the box. Those who do, they pay a huge price for ...

Kids can teach you a lot..........about marriage

A friend of mine called me last night with a issue of his. He had a fight with his wife and he was upset about it. Being a bachelor I can still give my friends the luxury to call me whenever they want and come by my place at whatever time they want. So he landed up at my place at 2 in the night. I firstly heard him out very keenly. That's actually the best thing to do to cool down someone's anger. I had learnt this in the call center job I was doing where I worked as a sales exec. He went on and on about the issues he had and the complains he had and how he was being a good husband having even such issues he never complained and all. I just kept on listening just giving single syllable inputs wherever I could. Seriously being a bachelor I could just understand his issue but couldn't share his agony.  I was just waiting for the opportunity to stop speaking so that I could finally speak. The wait was too long. At 4 he was done with his vomit of agony. I then mad...

God Should be Elected..........

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Lets see who wins God or Devil. The winner should rule. Hi friends,  Its been a long time since we all speculating the next PM and we are very happy to have a nice candidate as a PM for us. Our country is finally in safe hands. Now, we can relax and sit back and enjoy the profits of this new PM. We all have dreams and we believe he will fulfill them.  Weird isn't it to solve the problems of the country we have a PM and we always believe that we have chosen the best. Have we chosen the best for our personal problems, personal depressions, tears, heartbreaks? Think again have we?  I know many would say what kind of stupid and crazy kind of question is this and what does choosing someone for our personal problems and issues has to do with the countries PM. It has nothing to do with the PM directly but with the procedure we are going to choose the PM.  We all have been taught since childhood that GOD is the one who helps us in our times of need...