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HEARTBREAK ---- TIPS TO TACKLE IT

Isn’t it funny that nearly every person on this earth has once fallen in love and had heartbreak. But, when it comes to facing it everyone forgets this fact that they are not the first ones with whom such a thing has happened. In school when we were punished for something we use to always feel relaxed if there were more people punished with us for the same reason. The human brain come what may feels relaxed when it detects more people in the same situation, the same applies with heartbreaks. Nearly, everyone has heartbreak at any age as a matter of fact. Some have frequent heartbreaks and some yet have HUGE HEARTBREAKS as they describe it. Everyone feels relaxed to listen to someone else's story of a heartbreak thinking that I am not alone. Researching on the same here is what one should do in a situation of heartbreak: 1.) The first thing a person does in heartbreak is cries a lot for the initial days. That is the best option let everything inside come ...

NEW IDENTITIES ----- ACCEPT THEM OR REJECT THEM THEY DO TAKE THEIR PLACE

Its been 10 years now. 10 years since I had taken that one decision of completely disrespecting my talents, my dreams, and my skills and holding hands with this life. I was always under the impression that every man has a purpose on this earth and mine was to entertain. I was an entertainer as everyone around puts it. People, friends, teachers everyone thought I would turn out to be a huge theater personality. But,my parents thought on the contrary. Belonging to a business class I was always told I should be focussed on becoming a business class, I should always think of higher education in either medical, finance, marketing, or any other such behind the desk professional field. So, I took the decision of being one of these. At the age of 14 I had promised myself I would never give up to this idiotic so called professional world. But, at that very age I also did break this promise. I had forgotten I had no choice of my own then, neither do I have today. Every single da...

BELIEF AND DISBELIEF THE CHOICE IS YOURS I HAVE MADE MINE

It is difficult to live in this busy world which has a lot of questions on belief and disbelief. Have gone through so many things in the world that sometimes I agree with the non believers in God, miracles and faith. But the believers also have concrete reason too. I know many go through this dilemma in life. Sometimes in grave situations our faith is tested and sometimes it is answered in positive sense. But sometimes it just leaves us with a question. The question of belief or disbelief. I am going through this battle since a long time now. Broken dreams, broken aspirations and this one question. I was too tired of the war within so I put the two situations belief and disbelieve at war. Here is what I recorded in the conversation between them Belief: hello friend how are you? To this disbelieve replied sorry I am not your friend. Belief told, this is what you believe right. To this disbelief said yes this is what I believe and here belief smiled as disbelief also had a belief. Si...

Privatising Kashmir is this what we call INDIANISM

Recently I read on FB one of my cousin DR.JIMIT PATRAWALA had written something about Kashmir and the TRICOLOR of our nation. I found out some facts and thought of this as a very sad thing. We are not allowed to hoist our TRICOLOR in Kashmir. The Kashmiri government proclaims that it is not a part of INDIA. Sad to know that because since childhood we have been taught that Kashmir belongs to INDIA. Many of the wars have been fought between INDIA and PAKISTAN for Kashmir. Terrorism in INDIA is due to Kashmir. Then how the hell the INDIAN government remain silent over this. What about the blood shed what about the sacrifices and what about all those promises made. I guess the government has gone to the dogs soon they will come down to selling other states and then other cities then the human resources .............Oye Manmohan singh ji jaaogo or else resign and go home to sleep You have a heart condition and you may die soon .............. I hereby appeal to all the readers an...

THE TERRIFYING NIGHTMARE OF THE ADMISSION PROCEDURE

Its been years now that I have left school and since then never have I ever entered any school premises. Of course our encounters with our principal in school has banned us from entering our own school. lols, jokes apart.... Recently I spoke to my friend Shabbir about school admissions and he said that its a huge harrasment to parents. I being single did not have the luxury to have a child yet but then too wanted to experience the dilemma so as usual I went down to the nearest school to know the admission procedures. Here I spoke to the ADMISSION FORM itself and here is what I get to know Hello sir how are you I am Kunal I am here to buy you for the admission of my to be child. Form: - Oh how old is your child. Me:- I am single yet. Form:- Then for whom are you buying me Me:- Obviously for my child Form:- But you do not have a child yet right Me:- yes, but I want to buy it in advance Form:- Oh how wise of you Mr.Patrawala to take such a mature decision. I am happy we have peo...

Some reflections

Life is a wonderful thing to be lived. In this past year I had news about a lot of youngsters trying to commit suicide and end their lives, even I fell victim to one unwanted event of depression in my life. But, was it worth it to do such an act of cowardness, the answer I got was NO. Even I chose an easy way to run away from tears and pain in my heart. Even I decided that I cannot live without a particular person in my life. Agreed that I am in deep love with her. But as she always says "dying is not the solution Kunal" She is right dying is not the solution. The solution to problems is not running away from them but it is facing them right in the eye. Every problem has a solution. These were the words I had learnt in my life. If there is no solution then there is no problem. Its been 25 years now that I am living a life of may be a joker for some, philosopher and guide for some, a good friend to some more, and may be a excellent lover to my sweetheart ( I will have to take...

KILL THE BLOODY POLITICIANS IN A UINITED WAY

WEIRD IS THE WAY IN WHICH WE INDIANS LIVE. EVERYDAY BEING CHALLENGED TO EITHER PRICE HIKE RAPE CASES OR MAY BE SCAMS OR MURDERS OR ANYTHING UNWANTED. WHO IS TO BLAMED? THE WHOLE SYSTEM ACTUALLY. AND HOW CAN WE CHANGE THE SYSTEM? OH , FORGET IT. OUR SYSTEM IS OUT OF BOUNDS OF CHANGE. THE ONLY WAY THINGS CAN IMPROVE IS THE "END IT" METHOD. YES THE "END IT" METHOD IN SIMPLE WORDS END THE CULPIRIT. IN INDIA WE KNOW THAT MOST OF THE SCAMS ARE BECUASE OF OUR DEAR BELOVED MINISTERS. THESE ARE THE DOGS WHO GET VOTED FOR AND THEN SIT DOWN IN THE ASSEMBLY LAUGHING OUT TO THE ALLEGATIONS OF SCAMS ON THEM. THEN THE SESSION PUTS UP A COMITTEE TO INVESTIGATE AND THEN THE SAME OLD STORY THE JUDGE IS NOT AVAILABLE AND ETC. BUT ARE THESE COMITTEES REALLY NEEDED, I MEAN WE ALL KNOW IT CRYSTAL CLEAR THEN WHY THE NEED OF FORMALITIES. HERE MY MIND DEVELOPED A METHOD THE END IT METHOD. WE INDIANS DO NOT KNOW THE VALUE OF UNITY. IF WE UNITE AND CONTRIBUTE JUST 1 RUPEE WE CAN EASILY HIRE...